Only you can change yourself. External influences many play a role but it is your responsibility to reinvent yourself.
Look at me, I went from adoring the stars to loving people (health sciences) & ending up having the greatest passion to literature. You have endless possibilities, that’s why an artist can sing, dance, act & become business people.
The human brain is powerful, its capabilities are limited by FEAR. Human emotions tend to cloud things and its your fault if you try to limit yourself.
Find the new you or rather let me say, find yourself. Your true self and you will discover very many things. Have new beginnings and discover wonderful horizons.